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Okay I been with my Boyfriend for 6months I LOVE HIM, i met my boyfriend thru my mom while i was dating someone else at that time. he was in a relationship with an older lady he is 23 she was 32, they were togheter for 2years. He loved her and he was really good to her, she cheated on him with 2 man and he took her back.

Anyways, when i met him, he was shy and he told my mom i was pretty, at this moment his relationship with his EX was doing bad, because she has a bad mouth and she loved going out to clubs and living the life while getting drunk but he loved her..

.Time passed and i had broken up with my at-the time bf… when me and him started talking again…his ex had broken up with him and left him for another man…we were both single but hurt… we talked and talked until we became a little more than friends..but he was honest and told me that he had feelings for her and he did not want to hurt me so…he had to be sure she was out of his heart before asking me to be his GF..

couple months past and he said i was the one..i had mended his heart because i was so different and loving and i was just the total opposite…he told me stories at the beggining when he was with her how the relationship was…because i asked him to tell me…the first couple months he would refer her as my lady…but after i told him it affected me he stopped..and it would slip here and there not anymore… 3 months ago he called me by her name on accident..i almost made a scene…!! i was soooo ANGRYY!! but he apologized and looked scared…

about 2 months ago she called him and texted him wanting him back..saying she was sorry that she loved him..he told me about it weeks after..it affected me but i told him i didnt want him talking to her….1 month ago when we were at my house we were having some drinks…. everything was just perfect till i went outside and found him talking to her on the phone!!!! i catch him and he first lied said it was his friend than he confessed it was her…i started crying and told him to leave!..i was hurt felt a big hole in my stomach….,,i started running getting away and he ran and brought me back he hugged me and told me to let him explain…i didnt wanna hear it… i told him it was over….i went to my room and he knocked till i opened..he started crying and he kneeled..i never tought he would…he lookd at me in the eye and said..I LOVE U!! she is nothing to me…the only reazon i called her is because she owes me 3000 dollars..which she does…
he told me all this beautiful things..and said that he will never ever talk to her again and wont even ask her for the money to be okay with me…..

I forgave him and we got back togheter… He spends alot of time with me..mostly everyday right after work he goes to my house and sometimes he spends the night..most of the times… but ever since that day….i cannot forget about the call he made…what if he lied and still loves her and doesnt wanna accept…shes has been with many man she has 4 children… i keep looking at her FB withogh her and my bf knowing and i go thru her pictures and shes good looking..even if ppl say i look way better and shes nothing compared to me..it affects me… yesterday i had a dream where he left me for her….and i woke up with a bad mood and i didnt throw him a kiss because i was mad…

i know i might be too paranoid… im afraid that he leaves me…. even though he says he loves me…he has a great relationship with my family, my mom and my brother… but what is it???? i keep looking at her profile and feel anger!!! She wants him back and i know it because he told me that she did but he would never go back with her….he said he was stupid and blind when he was with her…WHAT DO I DO!! to feel secure!!…i am constantly thinkin about her i wish she dissapeared!!!

I forgot to mention (my past relationship..the boyfriend i had hurted me alot!….he ended up being married and with a kid…:( ) and before that….i was cheated on 2 times…i have had bad experience….

Best reply by dubs:

it seems like you dont trust him enough. thats one of the foundation of a relationship. ive had my share of jealousy and insecurity during the first year of my relationship with my significant other. but you know what instead of worrying about her, work on making yourself better. Think about other things to help yourself become more positive.

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HELP! Insecure about my Boyfriend because of his EX GF, what can i do?